Ayurveda Retreat & Being without Bodra

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We received our uniforms on Thursday which was exciting. That morning we also took part in a Puja ceremony to cleanse the Ayurveda Retreat. There was an authentic Indian Priest who did all the chanting & he had an amazing voice, resonating throughout your being. He gave us each a sandalwood blob on our foreheads & tied a red string around our wrist. It was nice being a part of the ceremony, although we weren’t expecting it at all. The night before we had had a staff meeting which went on for nearly 3 hours & then they said- be at the clinic at 9am for training. Then they decided at 11:30pm that night that they would have the Puja. It seems this is the way they do things- nothing is thoroughly planned, it’s just all these spontaneous events happening in a haphazardly way & we all just hope that by the end of it we will meet our goal. Our manager Parit has said he wants us all trained up on every treatment by September so our training will continue for a few more weeks yet. It’s been four weeks so far & no sign of an income from it, which has a lot of us stressed.

On Thursday we learnt how to give this treatment which involves dripping oil on the clients head for half an hour- Shirodhara. It is the most tedious treatment to give as it involves not much movement or interaction- just watch the oil level & pour it. It is quite complicated too as you have to heat the oil up & top up the oil dispenser & make sure it is the right temperature.

We had a great learning session on Friday as we used a mix of herbal powder & oils on the body instead of just oil. Learning a Cellulite busting massage technique. It was fairly straightforward so we managed to retain our enthusiasm & confidence throughout the learning. Then I worked with Sally to give Lucinda a full body massage- the second one I have ever given. I don’t know the moves off by heart so it will take me a while before I get it.

Then Sally, Lucinda & I walked to Caversham to show me the Crystal Dragon shop. Lots of crystals & angel books & jewellery. The guy who owns the store is a Reiki Master. I had met him once before in the mall where he had given me a few minutes of healing just so I could understand what Reiki is like. He put his hands above my head & I could feel a force, like heavy warm air. Then yesterday he did a quick energy balance on all of us, & I felt the same sensation when he went past my throat & abdomen. He asked if I’d had trouble communicating & grounding myself. Interesting!

Monday will be my first day as a receptionist so I will look forward to that. Although besides answering the phone & assisting people who come into the clinic, I don’t really know what my other duties are. Luckily Lupe will be there as well.

My first day without Bodra today. He woke at 6:30am & left for the airport at 7am. Unfortunately for him his plane ended up being delayed until 12:30pm. But the day has been nice for me. I went to a workshop on Self Esteem; Sonia & Sally from the clinic had signed up to do it too so I wasn’t alone. It was a really lovely talk where the conclusion was that you just need to reprogramme yourself not to focus on the negative & you do this by realising the positive, which can be achieved when we understand that our fundamental nature is positive because all we ever want is love, peace & happiness. Very simple & grasp-able. We had a little guided meditation afterwards which grounded us in our inner selves, so we all felt very alive & rich.

Afterwards I met with some of Sonia & Sally’s friends & then we went to a West Indian restaurant for lunch- Sonia shouted me. It reminded me of Maori boil up- I had a little bite of some goat which had been curry-fied & it tasted nice but I can tell my tummy didn’t need it. I had some King Fish as well which was yummy, & rice with black eyed peas in it I think- the rice was pink. & this strange sweet/bitter drink I think it was called Murli, made from the bark of a tree. We had the restaurant to ourselves as it was actually closed for lunch, just getting ready for the evening party so we got to sample the food as it had been freshly cooked.

It was lovely sitting with all these women & having a laugh with them. Light hearted & positive.

It’s been raining off & on for the past few days but I managed to dodge it today, in the cover of the bus shelter. The ride home was a bit disturbing as I couldn’t help but listen to a conversation a teenage brother & sister were having about their fighting & hospitalisation after being stabbed. So I just tried to project calmness & peace to them. It’s hard not getting emotionally effected by these lives out there. Lots of lone elderly people stiffly making their way down the streets with their nearly closed over eyes. I get quite upset at seeing them & feel really conscious about projecting that on them, so I close my eyes & try to glow peace & tranquility to them.

So I have housework to do now before I will allow myself to lie down with a good book & tea. I’m sure the time will pass by very quickly & I really look forward to receiving a postcard from Bodra & Las Vegas presents too! Kim & Ezra had sent us a postcard from Barcelona with a photo of the Gaudi buildings on it- definitely a sight I’d like to see for real! 

Speaking of postcards- I’d really like some from anyone who would like to scribble to me!  I’m missing NZ scenery & what better way to se it when you’re overseas?  A postcard of an ocean or forest scene would be a treat!  :)  Email me if you would like our snail mail.  There is a prize for the best postcard!

Dadi Janki, WOMAD, Ayurveda clinic & SYMANTEC

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Last week Bodra & I went to the Reading Town Hall to see this lovely lady called Dadi Janki give a talk about relationships & forgiveness. It was so worthwhile going even though we had both had a long day & didn’t really feel we needed to hear it- but as she was a wise old yogi I thought there would definitely be a pearl or two to glimpse at.

So she began her talk by saying that there are three jewels we need to obtain: patience, tolerance & love. (I had a little giggle to myself as I am often cursing myself for my lack of patience & tolerance. At least I have love!) If we have these three jewels then everything should be quite simple. She also said that sorrow leads to suffering, so we shouldn’t have a delicate heart, instead we must be strong & sensible when we have little irritations- be sensible! Not to make a mountain out of a mole hill… & if we can not worry about the little irritations- then the big irritations become little too… soon we won’t have any irritations! How great would that be!

She also told us about patience, how it helps to finish the ego so we can develop humility & become non-reactant. Then we can catch the true intention of others rather than getting caught up in our own minds.

I had a real giggle when she said that if we live life in a simple way, we can be a sample to others. There I was thinking Bodra & I would have to live on rice & wear potato sack clothes & barefeet! I think a lot of people will recognise that as simplicity, but also a little loopy lahlah!

Then she kept saying we can be the essence of peace when we go inside & see all the goodness. No ‘I’ consciousness, just realise that we have reality & royalty inside us because we are the children of God therefore we deserve love & peace.

Fortune, Time & God makes things happen, so all we need to HAVE is courage, truth & faith that all will be fine!

It’s funny- I know it so well when I am in a happy positive frame of mind like today. I feel like I am really learning my Ayurvedic massage well. So far I have learnt Head massage, should & neck, & face massage. I had the test today & I know I did well. It is all coming really easily to me- because I am so happy to be learning this & practising it & thinking about it. There is nothing to be worried about with it. I don’t think I’ve ever experienced those sorts of thoughts in my learning before!

I’m just so happy to be learning something that I can share with my family & have them benefit from it too. Bodra is really enjoying coming home to massages! It feels so good to be giving- I even enjoy making meals for us too.

Yes, it’s all about trying to find your groove on this planet, where do you fit in so that everything flows naturally around you. It’s wonderful looking outside & seeing the river flow past us, carrying away all the aches & bringing earth energy to us!

Ez came over on Friday night & stayed with us. We went out to the Bel & Dragon pub for a wee drink then I got to experiment my Indian Head Massage techniques on Ez when he was really relaxed! Then on Saturday morning Bodra & I went to the Walkabout pub to watch NZ vs Oz in Rugby so that was awesome- we won. We really felt the touch of home while watching the game- funny how these things that you didn’t really connect to IN home suddenly become so meaningful.

Ez & Kim took haven in our flat on Saturday night, so that was awesome being able to see them & then give them some comfort.

We went to WOMAD for a few hours on Sunday- Kim had managed to score us some armbands so we could get in for free. The music wasn’t that interesting to us. It was great seeing Kimmy at the FairyLove stall & seeing Jase, Shelley, Rosa & Daisy who were working with her. I was interested in the markets too even though we had no money. We saw these awesome digitised prints of nature where they had taken a piece & then repeated it or reflected it to create like a strange wood creature or a kiwifruit slice www.seanhellman.com

This week I have learnt neck, shoulder & face massage. I had my test today & did better than I thought. Tonight we went out with Bodra’s work mates to a Chinese Restaurant for dinner. What an awesome bunch of people! Very world-wise & friendly.

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